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Breaking the Patterns of the Past: Learning How to Let Go
At some point, many of us hit a wall. We find ourselves in a loop—repeating the same conversations, choosing the same kinds of people,...
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Jul 203 min read
Let Go of the Bricks: Build a New House
There’s a saying I come back to time and time again: “If you keep carrying the same bricks from your past, you'll end up building the...
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May 292 min read
Love Isn’t Always Enough: When Timing Gets in the Way
They say love is the most powerful force in the universe. They tell you it transcends time, distance, and even reason. That if you love...
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Apr 204 min read
Returning to Therapy: A Love Letter to My Future Self
The other day, someone asked me, "Mariah, you’ve been without a therapist for two years—what made you decide to go back?" At first, I...
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Apr 203 min read
Planting a Garden I Can Call My Own
I’ve been living a double life. I didn’t realize the weight of it—the emotional toll, the psychological fatigue—until my therapist and...
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Apr 203 min read
Breaking Free from the Shadow of Competition
Growing up as a middle child in a highly successful and competitive family shaped me in ways I’m still uncovering as an adult. I was...
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Apr 22 min read
The Weight of Womanhood: An Ode to International Women’s Month
To be a woman is to exist in a paradox. To be seen, but not heard. To be spoken over, overshadowed, and underappreciated. To be...
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Mar 252 min read
Women Are Not the Enemy: Why We Need to Uplift Each Other Instead of Competing
There’s an unspoken truth that we, as women, need to address: we often see each other as competition rather than allies. We compare...
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Mar 233 min read
How to Find Direction When You've Lost Your Compass
I’m not going to lie—this last year and a half has been a lot. Life has been overwhelming, full of change, loss, and moments of...
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Feb 284 min read
Trust and Letting Go: Seeing Relationships Objectively
Trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship—whether it’s a friendship, a romantic connection, or even a professional bond. But...
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Feb 283 min read
Am I an Only Child? The Complexity of Family and Growing Up
"Are you an only child?" It’s a question I get asked more often than you’d think. The assumption always makes me laugh because, in...
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Feb 244 min read
When “What You Want” Isn’t Meant for You (And How to Know the Difference)
I used to say, “I get everything I want.” And for a long time, it felt true. I set my sights on something, worked relentlessly, and...
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Feb 134 min read
The Art of Running—And Finally Learning to Rest
Some people are meant to always be running. Running toward the next opportunity, idea, apartment, lover—never quite stopping long enough...
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Feb 54 min read
When the Past Haunts the Present: Bringing PTSD Into New Relationships
I’ve realized something lately—sometimes, I am the problem . Not because I don’t deserve love or because I’m incapable of being in a...
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Jan 295 min read
Is It Possible to End a Relationship When You’re Still in Love?
I asked myself this question as the walls of my relationship were crumbling around me. Every fiber of my being begged me to give in—to...
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Jan 203 min read
How to Let Someone In While Relentlessly Pursuing Independence
For those of us who have fought hard for our independence, letting someone into our lives can feel like navigating uncharted territory....
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Jan 183 min read
The Danger of Ignoring Your Dreams: Why You Must Chase What Sets Your Soul on Fire
There’s a particular heartbreak that comes from realizing you’ve been chasing the wrong things. It’s not a sudden epiphany—it sneaks up...
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Jan 183 min read
I Fell in Love with a Hypothetical
When I met him, I fell in love with the idea of what could be. Hypothetically, we had everything: a future full of adventures, a love...
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Dec 30, 20243 min read
Living in the Now: A Reflection on Turning 27 and Embracing the Journey
Life is an interesting thing, isn’t it? When I was 16, I dreamed of being 18, imagining the independence and freedom that awaited me. At...
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Dec 24, 20243 min read
How I stay positive with PCOS - going from infertile to pregnant
Living with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) for the last four years has been nothing short of frustrating. It’s a condition that impacts...
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Dec 15, 20243 min read
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